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Well we broke up...

Discussion in 'Off Topic Discussion' started by aznboi3644, Mar 24, 2008.

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  1. aznboi3644

    aznboi3644 Full Member

    Hey guys...I might not be on as much this week.

    Me and my girlfriend broke up this past friday after 2 years and 2 months.

    Sh!ts hard...life sucks right now. I want to kill people.

    Peace
     
    aznboi3644, Mar 24, 2008
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  2. Adrian

    Adrian Full Member

    Take It E-z Man Jus Let Dem Subs Hit And Releave The Pain
     
    Adrian, Mar 24, 2008
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  3. aznboi3644

    aznboi3644 Full Member

    after 6 six weeks of quitting i've bought my first pack since...it helps a lil
     
    aznboi3644, Mar 24, 2008
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  4. cccullen

    cccullen Full Member

    I know that sucks dude. Don't go back into bad habits though, It ain't worth it. take it easy and you'll get over it man.
     
    cccullen, Mar 24, 2008
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  5. aznboi3644

    aznboi3644 Full Member

    I tried to take it easy...friday night and all saturday I was fine...tonight though I about snapped...drove to the gas station to buy a pack of cigarettes.

    Thoughts started to flood my head...I called up my friend and asked if it was cool if I came over. Went over there and talked to them for a lil bit. Came home.

    This is probably going to be the last pack I buy. Tried to drink the pain away this past weekend...worked for a little bit. Smoked some danky weed, first time in 6 months....it helped get my mind off it for a while.

    Still trying to be strong
     
    aznboi3644, Mar 24, 2008
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  6. fstrfvo

    fstrfvo Full Member

    Hey Azn I know its hard right now but maybe for the best. My GF and I broke up after 10 years, she went out with some other guy and I went out with some other girls. This went on for about 8 months, Then around Xmas I sent her a card and she called me a few days after that. She ditched the guy on New Years and went out with me to Universal City walk. Well weve been happily married for 11 years now. I can honestly say that I was happy we broke up for about a week then after that I dont think there was a day that I didnt wonder how or what she was doing. Give it some time and see if you guys miss each other. If not then its better to find out now rather then after you get married.
     
    fstrfvo, Mar 24, 2008
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  7. cccullen

    cccullen Full Member

    breaking up does suck. I've had my share in the past but you will get over it. It will take a little time, all you have to do is accept it for what it is. Smoking, drinking (which i do) does take your mind off it but when its all said and done, the problem is still there man.

    all i can say is just give it some time and be strong.
     
    cccullen, Mar 24, 2008
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  8. electrolytic

    electrolytic Full Member

    Lot's of fish in the sea!!
     
    electrolytic, Mar 24, 2008
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  9. jonnyv713

    jonnyv713 The Young Gun of CAT

    well i got the same to say as electro, but im sorry to hear that, im sure all of us here at car audiotalk will help ya out.
     
    jonnyv713, Mar 24, 2008
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  10. G3n3R@1

    G3n3R@1 Full Member

    danky weed? my man. ya breakin up and all sucks but we all get over it. cept for the random psychos that are out there! but first smoke the danky weed then listen to your 18
     
    G3n3R@1, Mar 24, 2008
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  11. Adrian

    Adrian Full Member

    yuup aint nothing like the PURPS and some killer bass
     
    Adrian, Mar 25, 2008
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  12. pedro quiroga

    pedro quiroga Well-Known Member

    there's nothing worse than loosing your fist love.

    it sux.all i can say is it takes time.

    drinking can only make it worse.
     
    Last edited: Mar 25, 2008
    pedro quiroga, Mar 25, 2008
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  13. aznboi3644

    aznboi3644 Full Member

    actually its the second love...and I really could spend the rest of my life with her. I never really wanted to feel this fukin pain again.

    My friends keep saying if its meant to be than we'll get back together. I don't know though...fuk it.
     
    aznboi3644, Mar 25, 2008
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  14. cccullen

    cccullen Full Member

    Dude, when I was your age. I had a girlfriend for 4 1/2 years. I was madly in love with her. Then we broke up, I wanted to kill myself. I had a real hard time getting over it but I think 6 months later (it was a while) I was back and dated my next girlfriend for almost 3 years before i met my wife.

    It's all trial and error, If it's meant to be then she'll come back to you. If not, then suck it up and move on. It won't be easy but you will get through it.
     
    cccullen, Mar 25, 2008
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  15. Willy D

    Willy D Full Member

    Hang in there man...

    I dated my wife for 5 years in highschool, then was married to her for 19 years...Had a great marriage, two great kids...may of 05 she asked me to separate...I fought it off untill August...I moved to my moms...35 miles away. I lived at my moms for 5 months, then moved back home and she moved to an apartment...She filed in march of 06...Divorce was final in august of 06. My boys are a freshman in college and a freshman in highschool...I have lived on my own for a year now...

    It sucks complete ass....Everything in the world looked different to me for a long time...I am in a relationship right now that is so f'ed up that I wont even go into it....all I can say is hang in there...No matter what you think sometimes, just hang in there...I was on anti-depressants for 8 months and it screwed me up....I am ok today for the most part....

    5 years ago I was happily married then my world fell apart...It is hard, it is rough, but you will get through it...

    I am sorry you are having to go through it...give it time

    Willy
     
    Willy D, Mar 25, 2008
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  16. Ranger SVO

    Ranger SVO Full Member

    A person I know divorsed after 20 years, alot of support from friends helped. Seriously, right now whats important in your life is your studies. I know its hard but you are your #1 priority, remember that.

    Weed (great fun 30 years ago) wont help a thing, neither does alchohol.

    Work on a project, have a few friends over, a COUPLE of beers. Get the idea.

    You'll make it
     
    Ranger SVO, Mar 25, 2008
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  17. electrolytic

    electrolytic Full Member

    Spring must be in the air lol. Damn chicks always get ansy at this time!! Weird how things happen sometimes. My ex from like 15 years ago got a hold of me today, wants to know when i'm going to see her lol. Tells me she has a kid and she's not happy, just with the guy for the kid...lol man, i can't go back to small town living.
     
    electrolytic, Mar 25, 2008
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  18. electrolytic

    electrolytic Full Member

    ha, she sent me a bunch of pics, this is from like 1992. flashback!!
     
    Last edited: Mar 27, 2008
    electrolytic, Mar 25, 2008
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  19. pedro quiroga

    pedro quiroga Well-Known Member

    head banger? is that you?
     
    pedro quiroga, Mar 25, 2008
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  20. electrolytic

    electrolytic Full Member

    haha ya .
     
    electrolytic, Mar 25, 2008
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